Saturday, January 21, 2012

One Other Little Obsession:
Where Did I Come From?

Shawn was returning from the "old" hometown one night a couple of weeks ago. I sat down on the couch to watch TV and await his arrival.

(Does that give you images of a captain's wife looking out to sea anxiously awaiting any sight of her beloved's ship? 'Cause that's kinda what it was like. Only a lot less dramatic. And, no anxiety. And, a lot more TV... Anyway, I digress...)

I have no idea why - I've seen a thousand ancestory.com commercials - but, the one that came on that night totally sucked me. I just thought I would log on and see what I could see. Without "joining," of course.

I "joined," of course.

Three days later I emerged, after totally bingeing on census forms and birth records. I didn't know as much about my paternal grandmother as I should have, though. So, I shot my Aunt Pat (my dad's sister) a message - because, come on, we all know dads don't pay attention to stuff like where their moms were born!

Holy-wealth-of-information, Batman! I'm pretty sure this is what they mean when they say you should ask questions of your elders. Aunt Pat knows everything - at least everything I needed to get me off and running up the family tree again!

But, as quickly as I got sucked in, I lost interest. I got back to people being born in the 1700s, but there was no way to know if the information I was gathering was accurate; if the John Bassett born in 1770 was really my grandmother's great-great-grandfather. Especially, since a lot of the information you find is other people's family trees - subject to their own mistakes.

That. And, my paternal grandfather's side quickly jumped across the pond to Sweden. Turns out I can't read Swedish. So, their official documents were a little less than helpful to me.

But, my main conclusions?
  • If I have any hope of tracing back to the Mayflower (P.S. I don't.), it would be through my paternal grandmother.
  • My paternal grandfather - well, he's Swedish. (But, I did figure out through my own deduction that there must have been a settlement of Swedes in Iowa. Not only was my grandpa's dad born in Sweden, but so was his mom's dad. And, Aunt Pat told me I was right. I'm a total history detective!)
  • And, my maternal side? Um. I don't know how to say this, but there's a small chance we're a bunch of hillbillies. As in, the guy who kept marrying twenty-year-olds when his wives died - even when he was 54 (which was, like, as good as dead in 1884). He married three of them. And had 15 kids with them. So. I don't know. Maybe he wasn't a hillbilly. Maybe he was was just a dawg. But, most of these people were born in the hills of Tennessee. Isn't that, by definition, a hillbilly?

So. My heritage. I'm a Swedish Hillbilly.

But, now. I have a confession. I've been clicking back over there as I typed this post. I kinda want to start searching again. They have this little leaf that shakes at you if they have documents that they believe pertain to a person in your family tree - and I have a lot of leaves shaking over there!

Alright, I guess this is goodbye. Between ancestory.com and Spanish, when will I possibly find the time to blog?!

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Was it super expensive? My grandmother traced back the family history pretty far (1700s) and I've always wondered if she was correct. Could be very cool.
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1 reply · active 687 weeks ago
it's not super expensive - but they give you a two week free trial. just remember to cancel on day 14, not day 15 like i did!

i think it would be VERY cool to go look at the official documents and see if they match up with what your grandmother put together.
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I totally feel like family tree research is the blind leading the blind. I have your same question: how do I know for sure? I have an aunt who is VERY into and has joined several sites and even went to a conference. She swears up and down that they have RECORDS but I always tell her that maybe those records are not about the right branch of the family. And then she tells me that Mormons have all of that information. Well, they could be wrong, couldn't they????? I just don't trust it and I think it sucks people right in!
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1 reply · active 687 weeks ago
if all the names on an official document match up to all the names i have for a nuclear family, i feel pretty confident that i have the correct information. the problem is that it is quite obvious that census information from... say... 1920, was compiled by people with pen and paper going door to door - there are SO many human errors. so, yeah, i'm with you, some of it is just a leap of faith...
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Entertaining Women · 688 weeks ago

Your great-great-grandfather Lemuel Brandon was a famous cowboy...rode with Charles Goodnight, blazing the Goodnight Trail. He's listed in the National Cowboy Hall of Fame. I've always called myself, "Potato Famine Irish."
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1 reply · active 687 weeks ago
i found him! he's one of the 15 children of the man who kept marrying twenty-year-olds! he, himself, only had six children. this seems like a much more respectable number. ;)
I bet Rosetta Stone does Swedish!
1 reply · active 675 weeks ago
Two languages?! It would be the death of me. (and, yes, i just answered your comment TEN WEEKS after you made it. is that not timely?) xoxo

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