Monday, June 20, 2011

"Mom? Can we get him some food?"

"Mom? Can we get him some food?"

I have to be honest. My first thought was "Oh yeah. Spence can read now." That meant he had seen the guy sitting by the mall entrance with the handwritten sheet of paper that said, "Hungry. Please help."

I, too, had seen the sign. But, the guy looked well fed. And, I had a thousand errands to do - with two kids who were slowly losing patience.

But, I answered, "Of course we can."

I pulled into the Fazoli's drive-thru. I ordered a sandwich and a Coke. I was still having every cynical thought possible:

"That guy doesn't want food. It's just a scam to get people to give him money."

"I've heard of people who just throw away the food people bring them because they just want cash."

"He probably won't even be there when we get back."

But, I kept my mouth shut. I don't want to ruin Spencer's innocent view of the world. I don't want him to learn, just yet, that sometimes people don't tell the truth. And, anyway, Spence was concerned with how slow the drive-thru was being. And, he kept asking me where the guy was. And, where was the mall entrance because he couldn't see it.

We got the food. We headed back toward the mall. As we turned toward the entrance, I saw the guy get up from his spot and cross into the Dairy Queen parking lot. I pulled up to him with my car, rolled down the window, held out the food, smiled and said, "We got you this."

It's then, when he began to speak, that I realized he was mentally challenged. He said, "Oh, wow. Thanks." He held out a wad of what looked like one dollar bills to me and said cheerfully, "A guy just gave me this. Do you want it?"

I told him to keep it for later. I told him to have a great day.

We pulled away and I could only say, "Spencer. I am so proud of you," before I choked up. Later, I told him, "That's exactly the way God wants us to treat each other. You made God so happy today."


There is more Christ-like love in one little child's heart than all of we world-weary adults combined.

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i'm starting to think we ALL did. much love, friend.
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Awesome! I would be in that same cynical boat with you.

When we leave Amarillo we always stop at I-40 and Lakeside to get gas. There are always people sitting there looking for various things. I guess we all need to remember that things many not be what we perceive.

Way to go Spencer! Thanks for sharing Ali!
1 reply · active 718 weeks ago
these kids teach us every day, don't they? xoxo
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I hope you also realize that Spencer does these things, in part, because he has wonderful, kind, giving, GOOD parents who lead by example. I mean that.
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thank you, jamie. more than you know. thank you.
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Adorable!!! If only we could see the world through their eyes for just one day. Imagine how different their perspective must be without all our jaded and cynical thoughts running through our heads.
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1 reply · active 718 weeks ago
imagine. it would be a beautiful thing to experience... again.
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LOVE this story. When my grandmother would see someone like that (which was usually at Hardee's for breakfast because that's where she went once a week when they had $1 sausage biscuits & she and her church friends would meet up-they were widowed and on a budget) she would say (and we are from Alabama so please imagine a very country, twangy, granny voice when you read this, "I'm not gonna give you any money but I'll buy ya a biscuit." :) And she would. Every time. Thanks for posting this. Way to go Spencer, and you too. ;)
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1 reply · active 718 weeks ago
i think i would have love your grandma. thanks, april. :)
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Your story put tears in my eyes. Sometime in the next few days, read Matthew 25:31-40 to Spencer, and tell him that he's earned a spot at God's right hand.
1 reply · active 718 weeks ago
i will! thanks, danny.
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That is absolutely precious. And I would be thinking the same things you were.....it's hard not to, right? Thank God for our children and the lessons they teach us.
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Spencer's perspective is exactly that of a good friend of ours here in Austin. He started Mobile Loaves & Fishes (mlfnow.org) We just never know. I love kids. They teach the best lessons.
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they do. i think God gave them to me because he knew i had so much learning to do...
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